I want to tell you about ‘something’ that always pushes me to think deep about. I must require a big interrupt to come out of that never ending thinking. That ‘something’ is peoples’ behavior towards others – demeanor. Much to the surprise they get irritated to the same behavior when they experience it from others!
People always just don’t like what others got benefited how ever the big thing or small thing that may be. They seldom appreciating things. They do not think about the others’ feelings. Great thing is… they do not have sense to think about what they deserve and what they are going to get!
It is good to appreciate the ‘results’ when they could not be changed. I would like to tell you one simple example. When one guy gets a single bedroom flat in lottery – people comment in envy on what he got. He got that flat in lottery, he cannot change the results of that lucky-draw. For a ticket of 10 bucks he got something big! In fact, getting a single bed room flat in lottery is a good thing! What keeps others to comment like that is their envy. Here relations, friendship etc. etc. will not be considered, they just go onto attick. They do not appreciate the luck that worked out for him.
You try criticizing their luck, I am sure – you will face some hard moments. They do not know that, WHAT YOU GIVE IS WHAT YOU GET! THE MORE YOU SOW, THE MORE YOU REAP!
God bless them always!
This post is in accordance with the real life scenarios. You explained a critical thing in a just 4 to 5 paras. Actually that is the biggest nuisance people face.
I have seen so many people like this. Fuc*ers. really. Even though this has been the mentality of human since his first birth, it does not get changed.
I am also sometimes cynical, I should admit. I am also human right, after all!
Krishna Suri
Good post chandra. As I read this post, the saying which struck to my mind is ‘It is easy to shape a river rather than human’s mentality’. I feel whenever we come across these kind of people in our life it is better to act like Mikazaru (who hears no evil). It is waste of our time and waste of energy to think about these kind of people.
Indu