Life is short. Undoubtedly, life is short and also it is good to have it short. Don’t take me wrong. I wish we all live long and have a great delightful life. What I really mean is you feel life is short relatively, only when you are happy. Happiness gives a big run to your days. Happiness gives time some velocity. The days just run when you are happy.
On a fine day if you sit alone in a nearby park among the long, green and firmly standing trees and think, you should not feel you are alone. Your all happy and fruitful days should dance in front of your eyes and they should make you to forget the beautiful nature you are in. You should be able to forget the sense of the breeze flowing through your hair. The more happy and fruitful days you have the more quality life you ‘own’. The more quality life you own the more meaningful life you showed to your kids.
It is just natural that we have many bad moments in our lives. The feeling that one single bad moment gives is more punching than what ten happy moments give. We never shut the doors to the past. We always recall, recall and recall something from unhappy past moments and think about the same. We ruin our moments by not closing the past. Mostly those unhappy incidents are also because of the people you have in your life. Their actions might have crippled your heart. Their action might have, surely, crumbled the trust you have built for them. Natural, you must have responded back with harsh actions or some censuring. For both of these incidents we feel bad because you didn’t want to get hurt by their actions or you might not have wished to behave like that towards them. But, bad moments ‘happened’ in your life.
A simple-but-complex-to-implement rule I have put in practice for my life. For my own life. Yeah, you may think that I am experimenting with my life. I do.
The rule is… “I should leave the crap people. I should just have a small number of best people in my life.”
Let me take a small incident, “I was bitten by a snake. The venom is running through my veins imbibing my life.” What should I do then? I should suck the poison out. I should. That is what exactly I am doing now! I have crap people in my life whose actions are taking away the felicity of my life. I should pull them out of my life. Then only I can live. Happily.
Yeah… you have a question now. “Chandu, are you the best?” Bro, am I best or not is others’ problem. It is their choice to have me in their life or not. But for me, I have put this rule in practice. I am not here on this earth to live someone else’s life. Right?
I have one life here on earth ! I am molding it !! Leave me alone !!!
Interesting. Connie
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Thanks Connie.
Good one Buddy.. Your rule looks so simple but works in my opinion if people try to implement it..
Thanks Prasad.
But, you know… you have to face difficulties in putting it in implementation.
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Chandu
Perfect Rule Chandu..Hope we all, some day fall under the best category following this rule.
Thanks Srihari.
Chandu